Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Joseph is my Hero; a Thought for Parashat Vayeshev (Genesis 37:1 - 40:23) -



Forgive me for not blogging a thought for last week’s Torah portion.  We moved into our new apartment in Ashqelon, and it took until this week before we could get our internet hooked up.  But more on my continuing adventures in Israeli life in a separate post; in this one I’d like to write about Joseph, son of Jacob/Israel.
Every year, as the cycle of readings reaches the Joseph     
 portions towards the end of the book of Genesis, I get excited.  Joseph is hands down, my favorite personality in the Torah.  So, why do I like Joseph, and his narrative so much?
For one thing, Joseph epitomizes why the Torah feels like a living and true document to me.  He seems real.  He is talented.  He has greatness within him.  But at least for the first part of his life, he seems determined to prevent the greatness from manifesting itself.  He squanders it for a time by being full of himself.
As a child, he’s spoiled by his father’s favor and seems determined to make an ass of himself.  Dad doesn’t help:  sending his youngest son to check on his older brothers, on the assumption that Joseph will be happy to bring back any adverse report.  When my children were young and one wanted to give me an adverse report on the other, I would silence them with Don’t be a stukach!  ‘Stukach’ is a Russian word meaning ‘informer’; when I learned that word many years ago, I immediately liked its sound and thought it captures the loathsomeness of a tattletale much better than…well, ‘tattletale.’
So Daddy Israel gets some of the blame, but still…Joseph was all too happy to participate, especially given his dream of lording it over to his brothers.  And not to ‘blame the victim,’ but when his brothers throw him in the pit and sell him to the Egyptian slavers, it’s easy enough to think, he had it coming.
But as we know from the story, the experience and adversity brings out greatness in him.  He became obedient to G-d, and G-d brought success to all he did.  His Egyptian master, Potiphar, saw this and put him in charge of his household.  Unfortunately, this brought him to the attention of Potiphar’s wife who tried to seduce him.  But Joseph, by this time, was acting like the man he was destined to be and refused to betray his master’s trust.  His rejection of Mrs. Potiphar’s advances stings to the point where she denounces him to her husband, and that lands him in the Pharaoh’s dungeon.  But even under this adversity, he maintained his integrity.
In the weeks to come we’ll see Joseph’s story continue to unfold in ways that one would probably not have anticipated.  But for today, my lesson is that Joseph, as he develops his integrity, sees some of the greatness that he always knew was his destiny.  And even when he acts with integrity, he finds himself betrayed but he does not lose heart as he has found his inner man and hears the voice of G-d calling him to continue on.
How many heroes do we know of, who have maintained their integrity even under extreme duress?  They have lived, and in each generation one such hero serves to show us that, when adversity strikes, we need now sell our souls.  Most, facing their own particular adversity, will not find the strength to bear up.  But such heroes – like Joseph – teach us that it is possible and hopefully, provide the role models that will inspire each one of us so that when faced with adversity, G-d forbid, we won’t crack.

As we begin to read, once again, the story of Joseph, let’s take to heart this lesson.  G-d willing, none of us will face adversity of the terrible sort that Joseph faced.  But should that be our destiny, let us pray that we will find the way to face it and maintain our .
integrity as Joseph did.  Shabbat shalom.

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